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25 to 26 December · January

Rauhnacht 1: January, Setting the Tone

The first of the twelve nights opens the door. It stands for January, the month of beginnings, and it asks a gentle question: how do you want to arrive in the new year? Not what you must achieve. Just how you would like to feel.

Notice your mood tonight. Are you tired, curious, wistful, relieved? There are no wrong answers. In the old custom, whatever you sense on this night is read as a quiet hint for January. Nebu’s take: a hint is not a verdict, so treat it like a friendly nudge.

🕯️ Tonight’s ritual

Sit down with a cup of tea and write one sentence that describes how you would like the coming year to feel. Keep it simple, like “calm and curious”. Fold the slip and keep it in your notebook until the twelfth night.

✍️ Question for your notebook

How do I want to feel when I walk into this new year?

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