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29 to 30 December · May

Rauhnacht 5: May, Joy and Play

May is the month of blossoms, and the fifth night is a celebration of whatever makes you feel light. It asks when you last laughed until your cheeks hurt, and what kind of fun you have been postponing.

Grown-ups tend to treat joy as a reward for finishing everything else. This night turns it around. Joy is not a bonus. It is fuel. Think back to the moments this year that felt easy and bright, and look for what they had in common.

🕯️ Tonight’s ritual

Put on a song that makes you want to move and listen to it all the way through. Afterwards, write down three small joys you would like more of next year. Keep the list somewhere you can see it.

✍️ Question for your notebook

What brought me real joy this year, and how can I make room for more of it?

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