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3 to 4 January · October

Rauhnacht 10: October, Courage

October brings golden light and a certain boldness, and the tenth night is about courage. Not the dramatic movie kind. The everyday kind: saying no politely, asking for what you need, starting before you feel ready.

Think of something you have been putting off because it feels a little scary. Chances are the fear is bigger than the task. Nebu, who once wore his crown to a very formal gathering and left it crooked on purpose, recommends starting with the smallest possible step.

🕯️ Tonight’s ritual

Name one thing you would do if you were ten percent braver. Write it at the top of a page, then write the tiniest first step underneath. Put that step in your calendar for this week.

✍️ Question for your notebook

What would I do next year if I trusted myself a little more?

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